What on earth does dressing up like a woman have to do with saving my marriage?
Before your mind goes crazy, here’s the extent of my dressing up.
As you can see, it was merely high heels that I wore. Nothing more. I wasn’t a drag queen or anything like that for crying out loud. LOL.
None-the-less, walking around in high heels gave me ammunition to save my marriage and even strengthen it.
How you ask?
But first let me tell you why I was wearing high heels to begin with. Here, where I live and pretty much throughout the country, YWCA sponsors an annual Walk a Mile in Her Shoes fund-raising event. The proceeds raised go towards building awareness for domestic violence and in fact helping women to be housed. The cause is an amazing one to begin with which is why I got involved.
Basically, for one night, MEN, not women, walk around town for a total of 1 mile in high heel shoes. Prior to the event, they solicit donations from the local community and their own friends and colleagues.
The night started around 6pm and by 6.25 the 1 mile walk was pretty much complete. I however decided I would keep wearing my high heels the ENTIRE night. It so happens we stayed out till 2am that night. Ugh!
Reason for my madness?
It dawned on me that I don’t know of any women that go out for the night in high heels and simply quit after 1 mile of walking. My wife definitely doesn’t so why should I. To truly walk in her shoes, I needed to keep the movement going all night.
Now… how on earth is this fodder to save a marriage and stop a divorce and what does it have to do with this Mort Fertel Review?
You see… after walking around the whole night in high heels, the next day, my feet were in soooooo much pain it was almost unbearable. I had no idea high heels could do such a number on your feet. I almost begged my wife for a foot massage and even black mailed my kids in doing it for me. In fact, 3 weeks after the event and my left foot is still a little numb. It’s crazy I know but it’s true.
Anyway, after discovering this excruciating pain I realized that a brilliant way of giving my wife a gift – just like Mort Fertel advises in his Marriage Fitness program – is to give her a foot massage every morning after she wears high heels for our date nights.
It may seem common sense and simple – and it is – but guess what? Most husbands just aren’t thinking like this.
I however, thanks to Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness program am always thinking of ways I can do small “consistent” things for my wife to show her how much she means to me.
Would I have done this before learning all the marriage saving skills through Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness program? Probably not! I just wasn’t thinking like that. Saving my marriage wasn’t a priority then. But it definitely is now!
And thanks to Mort Fertel, I’m always looking for ways to keeping marriage problems away from my marriage and saving my marriage consistently and daily.
I hope you enjoyed this quick post and I look forward to writing more in this Mort Fertel Review.
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